Freedom and the Weight of Being
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Freedom and the Weight of Being

Sebastian Junger’s book Freedom explores the tension between autonomy and belonging, survival and meaning. From an existential therapy lens, it reveals how true freedom demands responsibility, courage, and connection.

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Unblurring the Lines: From Enmeshment to Healthy Family Closeness
Jerodine Newman Jerodine Newman

Unblurring the Lines: From Enmeshment to Healthy Family Closeness

As a couples therapist, one of the most common and subtle forms of relationship dysfunction I encounter is enmeshment. It is often mistaken for closeness or deep family loyalty, but Dr. Patricia Love, through her work on families and relationships has clearly illuminated the difference between enmeshment and healthy family belonging.

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The Gift of Being Real: Winnicott's Enduring Legacy
Mark Newman Mark Newman

The Gift of Being Real: Winnicott's Enduring Legacy

As psychotherapists, our work is fundamentally relational. We strive to create conditions where deep, lasting personal change can occur in how we relate to others, and ourselves. DW Winnicott’s significant contribution to psychology include highlighting the importance of early relationships, and introducing concepts such as the ‘holding environment’, The ‘Good-Enough’ mother, and the ‘True and False Self’.

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Is Your Mind Blocking Your Reality?
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Is Your Mind Blocking Your Reality?

Ever wonder why you avoid talking about a difficult subject or overreact to a simple comment? That's your mind activating a psychological defence mechanism. This is your mind trying to reduce anxiety, guilt, and emotional pain. Defences like denial, projection, and sublimation are the mental processes we use to manage overwhelming emotional states and maintain stability.

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Weathering Life's Storms: How can we maintain balance?
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Weathering Life's Storms: How can we maintain balance?

Your life can be said to be comprised of multiple compartments, such as family, friends, health, work, hobbies, and personal growth. Allowing one problem to consume your entire focus can undermine your overall stability. To maintain your balance and stability, you must intentionally focus on, protect and connect with all your healthy compartments.

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Morita Therapy: An Introduction
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Morita Therapy: An Introduction

Morita Therapy is a Japanese form of psychotherapy developed by psychiatrist Shoma Morita, which was influenced by Zen Buddhism. Its central premise is that suffering is perpetuated by the struggle to control or eliminate unpleasant feelings.

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Harry Stack Sullivan and the Therapy of Connection
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Harry Stack Sullivan and the Therapy of Connection

Harry Stack Sullivan is one of the forgotten figures in 20th century psychology, less mythologised than Freud, Jung, and Rogers. Yet Sullivan’s ideas and techniques remain relevant in today’s world of fractured relationships, digital isolation, and rising anxiety and depression.

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Happiness
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Happiness

When researching life satisfaction I have found that happiness and contentment is something we generate mostly through healthy relationships and self-acceptance

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Healing
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Healing

“The human psyche, like human bones, is strongly inclined towards self-healing.” - John Bowlby

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Perfectionism
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Perfectionism

"Perfectionism has nothing to do with being perfect" - Seth Godin

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Control Battle
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Control Battle

Neil Brown, a psychotherapist who has worked extensively as a family therapist, has described the pattern of conflict that develops between parents and teenagers as a 'Control Battle'.

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Marriage
Jerodine Newman Jerodine Newman

Marriage

"In a successful marriage, there is no such thing as one's way. There is only the way of both, only the bumpy, dusty, difficult, but always mutual path" - Phyllis McGinley

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Normal People
Mark Newman Mark Newman

Normal People

“The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well.” - Alfred Adler

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Parenting
Jerodine Newman Jerodine Newman

Parenting

"The relationship between the parents sets the pattern for all the relationships within the family" - Rudolf Dreikurs & Vicki Soltz

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